Chance Glance!

Nekocchi
22 Slovakia INFP
A girl who got lost in a nightmare and, using her own blood, she tried to change it into paradise.
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I’m shy, awkward and clumsy. Short somehow-human who loves to hug people but is mostly too insecure to do so. So, cuddles dogs and cats instead.

Likes

ToleranceCuddlesPhysical affectionNight skyNature

Dislikes

StressShoutingMisunderstandingsArguesAggression

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Location: Colanopy
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Colanopy
18 Australia INFJ 612 28C
Hello, hi!!

Is anyone still attached to this site? I still have this bookmarked on my new tab page and check every so often...
It feel like it still retains it's soothing, comfortable environment..
Location: Colanopy
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I still really love soultome!! Random thoughts:
How do you become natural at things like small talk and everyday actions? I struggle with small talk if it's with people I don't know extremely well, and sometimes I have no idea how to do simple things like walking!!

I'm still in school, so there are so many times when teachers appear with a "hi, how are you" and I can only ever respond with a awkward "uh good." or an "ah,.... hi". It always feels extremely forced and awkward whenever I try to respond/hold a conversation, and I wish I could give a good confident answer. I usually watch my friends and try to learn how they respond, since it seems like it's an automatic and easy thing for some of them.

Also walking - I never know what to do with my hands! They just kind of flop around and I don't know where to put them! It feels really unnatural for me to just put them into my pockets, or to just let them flop, so I sometimes just hold me elbows which also looks pretty unnatural in general. I feel like I look like an idiot sometimes, but oh well!

It'd be nice if this site would be more active :)
Location: Juraventure
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Colanopy 18 Australia INFJ 612 28C
I think you should draw for the sake of enjoyment and relief, where improvement is kind of like a bonus of lots of practice. I've tried doing daily drawing, but it became too much of a chore, and I found I spent less and less time each night drawing things, (but that might just be me getting lazy ^^).

Sometimes, just the process of drawing can make me feel better than the actual drawing itself :) I personally love the feeling of the pen just flowing across the paper, and I often just draw random swirls in my spare time. Sometimes, I just keep adding until it turns into anything, and this generally makes me feel the most relaxed.

Also it might be easier if you try to draw what you feel at the time, because drawing is a great way to express emotion!!
Location: Moonsoul
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Colanopy 18 Australia INFJ 612 28C
I've been trying to develop my confidence too! I'm trying to 'pick it up', and I also observe the confident people around me and consider them as my 'confidence role models'. It's really hard, and I always feel embarrassed and stuff, but I really think that I'm making progress! However I'm always feeling extremely self conscious... But I'm trying to convince myself that it's okay, and everyone will forget if I do something silly. Hopefully we can both grow in confidence :)

One thing I'm finding hard though is holding eye contact with someone. I generally avoid eye contact at all costs, unless it is with someone I'm close with, but I'm trying to stop myself from averting my eyes all the time. It's really hard with teachers and other people though, especially when they can just easily hold their gaze, and stare straight at you. Confidence is so hard to develop, but I really think I've made some good progress C:

Location: Oceandust
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I just played it and that was... that really affected me too :c
Location: Colanopy
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Location: Akail
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Location: Nekocchi
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Colanopy 18 Australia INFJ 612 28C
I've never even tried this, but Id really like to join ^^ It sounds like a lot of fun! Especially the magical aspect of it :D
Location: EmsanQ
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Colanopy 18 Australia INFJ 612 28C
That's nice!! I think,... Well to me anyway.

Down here we don't get snow. Ever. :c